Pattern of Language

In the second issue of this series, we'll deal with The Pattern Of Belief/Focus For Success. The third issue is The Pattern Of Physiology For Success.

It's so easy to feel successful that many successful people wonder why others don't feel successful all of the time.

Actually, the answer is simple.

It's normal to feel unsuccessful, because we are usually programmed to think we can't feel successful *all* the time -- some even think it's not healthy, that we should have the downs so we can have the ups.

And guess what!

People usually go along with that thinking! Why do they do that? Probably because they have the continual experience of having their mind go to their failures.

Why?

Because many don't know the strategy, the way to feel successful -- consciously. In these next three issues, I'm going to show you how. Today's article is the Pattern Of Language For Success. I will be following it up with the Pattern Of Physiology For Success, then the Pattern Of Belief/Focus For Success.

For now, let's start with the basics. The feeling of success is an emotion, just as the feeling of failure is -- and they are both an emotional pattern you have developed, just as all emotions have patterns. You don't feel an emotion, you do an emotion, or you do an emotional pattern.

These are the three patterns that govern our lives:

The pattern of how we use language -- words and tonality.
The pattern of how we use your physiology -- our body language.
The pattern of what we focus on -- the things we believe.

Those 3 patterns make up our emotions. Successful or unsuccessful feelings/emotions are learned and contributed to daily. Then, sooner or later, a pattern in formed.

We all have a pattern for success, but many of us use the pattern for *unsuccess*, or failure, much more than we do the pattern for success.

If you're happy, stressed, afraid, upset, or any other emotion, you're using your thoughts in a certain way. You're saying certain things outside and inside your head -- in a certain way, certain pattern.

Regardless if you are thinking or speaking or hearing, certain words, said in a certain way, trigger you. When someone yells at you in a way reminiscent of when you were growing up, you react the same way you always did -- good or bad. Why? Because it's a pattern you've learned.

If you want to be successful, but you are feeling like a failure, I suggest that you don't *do* the emotion of failure anymore.

How would it feel if you were successful all the time? You would stop saying those things in your head that trigger failure, right? Why not start your new success pattern by making a new trigger, one that would actually trigger a good feeling, a feeling of success, whenever you started to feel failure?

(If you don't know what a *trigger* is or if you don't know how to trigger, you can learn both here: Http://www.tameyourbrain.com/learneasier_triggering.htm
Learn how to deactivate old triggers that get you nowhere here: http://www.tameyourbrain.com/deactivatingtriggers.htm )

You want to be in a productive, successful state all the time? Then, it's up to you. No one else can do it. No one else can bring you down, either. (Pay attention to what brings you down, and deactivate that trigger.)

A hero is a state of mind. Be your own hero. Learn those certain words that magnify a certain emotion. Learn those certain words that lower the intensity of emotion. Learn those certain words that change your state. Start taking charge of your emotions.

Have you heard motivational speakers? They move you with certain words and with the intensity in which they speak them. Well, guess who's moving you every day, up AND down? You are! Notice the keywords that make you depressed or get you excited. Most of the things you believe start with the very first time you heard them, said them, thought them with emotion. (Then, they are repeated again and again. Now, you believe them. You'll learn more about that in the third article of this series -- the Pattern Of Belief/Focus For Success.)

Our Pattern Of Language is important to us. Once we realize how it affects our friendships, our relationships, our lives, and, yes, our success, we pay more attention to it. Learn just how important your Pattern Of Language is, then utilize that knowledge every day.

Jan

P.S. Here's what I've found to be the best methods for achieving success:
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/successEcourse/successOffer.php

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