Do you know how to think positively? . . .

What if you wanted something and you were saying all the right words as you meditated, thinking positively, but you FELT a conflict -- an argument -- brewing inside?

When we feel a conflict, our brain goes toward that. That's why some people have a problem with positive thinking. They think that's all there is to positive thinking (thinking positively) and they fail at it. They don't understand why, especially since they feel they were doing it properly -- after all, how hard can it be to think positive thoughts?

So, OK. They are thinking positively, but they don't like what they are thinking. They are thinking they want something, but they know they can't afford it. They don't like the *can't afford it* thought. That's where the conflict comes in.

Remember this: Your brain does not know the difference between reality and something *vividly* imagined.

So, you are vividly imagining a beautiful new car.

Oops. You see that you are flinching inside, because you KNOW you can't afford it. (Now what are you vividly imagining?) Your flinching is your body's reaction, or in other words, your physiology. Physiology is 55% of your communication -- especially when you're talking to your brain. What is your brain paying more attention to? Your words -- which are only 7% of your communication -- or you physiology, which is 55%? Your physiology, right? Right.

OK, now. You've just discovered that your brain is paying attention to the flinch. Everyone is different, but let's say your flinch means to you that *Oh, no. A new car means car payments, upkeep, insurance, etc. I can't afford that even if I had the new car.*

Guess what? That's what your brain is bringing to you. Exactly what *it* was shown. In other words, problems. So, your brain is going to do it's job -- it is going to bring to you what you are showing it. Again, what are you showing it? Problems.

So, how do you change this?

Here's how: You vividly imagine a beautiful new car and mentally say the words, *Harm to no one*. If you accidentally bring up the thought of car payments, immediately guide your mind back to *Harm to no one*, which will relieve you of that worry -- especially since *harm to no one* means no harm to you, too.

You now know that when you get your new car, it will be exactly what you want, at the price you want, in the way you can accept and afford. *Harm to no one*.

The same thing works for a new job, home, goal, family, etc. Why does this work? Because you stop the negatively at the start. Your mind will automatically go to *Harm to no one*, and you will feel a sigh of relief flow through your body. Your brain is no longer seeing a conflict.

You now have a better perception of positive thinking

You can now think positively -- *Harm to no one*.

Use this technique wisely. Feel the peace.

Thanks for reading,