Walk Your Talk
Walk your talk. You are ready to go on your job interview, your first date, your first meeting with the in-laws. What are you saying to yourself? What picture of yourself are you projecting? What kind of pitch are you pitching in your mind?
If your thoughts are "Why am I doing this? I know they wonít like me. I donít have enough education, theyíre going to know that. I donít think they are going to hire me." "She/he definitely wonít like me after the first five minutes. Iím too shy, I talk too much, Iím not very interesting. Iíll probably have bad breath." "They are going to HATE me! I know it. Iím taking their son or daughter away from them. I donít measure up to their standards."
If those are your prevalent thoughts, this is how you probably look as you stand outside the threshold of where you are going:
1. Your eyes are probably down and to the right as you talk to yourself, projecting all these negative thoughts.
2. Your shoulders are slumped. Your posture is dipping forward.
3. Your feet donít want to move. Your hands are in your pockets and, big surprise, they wonít come out to open the door.
What in the world are you doing to yourself?
Donít you realize your mind is in control of your body?
Donít you realize your body is in control of your mind?
See that circle we go in? If your body is slumped and dejected, your thoughts HAVE to be the same.
If your thoughts are dejected and self-defeating, your body canít help but reflect that. If you are thinking, "Iím no good. I canít do it" you certainly donít see your body standing up, stretching, your arms doing the one-two punch, ready to take on the world, do you? Didnít I just say ďYour body is in control of your mind?Ē
Donít waste your time saying none of that works for you. Take charge of your life. Straighten up your body, throw those shoulders back, hold your head up high, and march right into that situation!
TIP: You can't be down in the dumps with your shoulders back, your back straight, your head up, and that look on your face that says you can handle anything that comes down the Pike!
Your mind is in control of your body. Look at what you are thinking. Change your thinking to only one thing and youíll be way ahead of the game. "I now release the pattern in my consciousness that is creating resistance to my good."
After youíve said it enough times, canít you just feel your resistance leaving you? Canít you feel the shift, where the weight on your shoulders starts disintegrating?
Even though it is actually working, you must SEE it working. You know those feet that wouldnít move? Now, you be in charge and don't let them move until you feel the shift. Donít waste your time saying none of this works for you. Youíve got to move on and you canít until you decide you can make almost ANYTHING work for you. The more you SAY it, the more you THINK it, the more you ATTRACT it. Do you want it in your life? What are you attracting? If itís bad, STOP IT!
How? Take charge of your life. Once you get the negativity erased from your mind -- by saying "I now release the pattern in my consciousness that is creating resistance to my good" -- start thinking good thoughts. How about "They donít know me. This is my best shot at SHOWING them who I am. I am going to WALK MY TALK."
What does that do to your posture? Didnít I just say your mind was in control of your body? Didnít YOU just prove it? See all the great things you can bring into your life, and share that knowledge and ability with others.
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